Friday, December 11, 2009

Fashion & Attitude

When it comes to fashion, what comes into your mind? Dress up with the latest fashion trends in town? Dress to kill? Or should I say...dress according to what type of personality you wanna portray? Oh well, there are many ways to express and define fashion. As for me, I'm the type of person who dresses up based on my personality and character. I search for comfort too when it comes to dressing up. But, I'm pretty sure some of you would 'sacrifice' by wearing outfits that makes you look good in it. For all the girls out there, we guys appreciates your effort! :)

However, there are times when people dress up pretty well, but fail in other major aspects. Example: Personality & Attitude. I'm not saying that you shouldn't bother dressing up well when you have character. What I'm trying to imply is that if you're dressing up to that standard, your personality should match that standard. Example: A dresses so well that everyone looks at her suffers from the WOW effect. However, A is messy like shyte that he/she does not bother about anything else except looks. Piled up dirty clothes, not cleaning the dishes after meals and etc. Being judgemental by treating people differently based on how they look. Hey! Being good looking does not mean you have the upper hand to judge others just because their appearance are not as good as yours

You have what it takes to be there. It's sad to see that people 'win' by their first impression but fail so badly when their attitude has been revealed. Don't you think you're a hypocrite by doing so? Walk the talk! Wouldn't it be better if you actually synchronize both in attitude & fashion when bringing yourself around? Well well, the world is round. No one's perfect but there's always something you can do about it to make the world a better place right.

Always remember that Appearance = temporary. Attitude = carry to your grave. I'm not perfect either and so are you. Have a friend that is similiar to this situation? Tell him/her about it. At the end of the day, the choices we make are what we are today. Therefore, fashion + attitude = respect. Just food for thought. No offence alright :)

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